I was watching Lea Michele on David Letterman the other night, and her interview about her tattoos got me thinking.
Ever since I was about 17 I thought about getting a tattoo, a real one. My idea of the perfect tattoo back then was a tiny rose on the outside of my right ankle. Why my right ankle? I don’t know. Maybe I like it better than my left one. It was just the one I picked.
I always thought carefully placed tattoos could be attractive. I was never someone to favor the look of head-to-toe tattoos where a person had more color than skin, but that’s just me. I also admired those who put thought into the location of their tattoos as well as the design. I like the idea of being able to conceal a tattoo if you wanted to with a shirt or sock, entirely, for example. Facial tattoos are not something I feel enhance someone’s appearance, and I always wondered if it was a mistake if someone had a tattoo placed on their arm or chest that would chronically be only half exposed. It just looks odd to me. I would look at a few friends I have and think, “Was that your goal? Did you only want part of your design to peek out?” acknowledging if the tattoo were about an inch lower or higher, it would either be totally hidden, or completely visible. I’m fussy like that. I realize not everyone is, or cares.
However, at 17 I wasn’t 100 percent sure that I wanted to make a permanent inking commitment at that point in my life. Plus, there was no way that my parents were going to give me permission to get inked at that age. I see their point–many of the choices we make as kids are not the same ones we would make as adults. Hair dye and clothing styles can come and go, but if you make holes in your body, or get a tattoo, that’s a lifetime of living with it. (I know you can get tattoos removed, but it can leave a scar; and yes, you can have them redesigned–but what if you just think your ink stinks!)
I guess it’s a good thing that I didn’t go through with some of my decisions of my earlier days, and that when I did make changes to my appearance, they were not the permanent kind for the most part, or at the very least were easy to conceal. I think about when I was 14 and all of my friends were dyeing their hair shades of fluorescent pink. I did it too. I’m so glad it wasn’t an everlasting choice because I think I would look pretty silly walking around town with a glow-in-the-dark coif in my 30s right now. I’d be the talk of the town for sure–but not in the way I want.
And in retrospect, I’m glad I didn’t get that rose tattoo. It turns out that I’ve learned a few things along the way about my skin tone and what colors show up on it best. How do I know this? Well, I decided before taking the leap and getting a real tattoo, I better go for a test drive first. I’m not talking about using those press on or place on with water tattoos. There was a better way to do this that I discovered.
A few summers ago I was on the Point Pleasant boardwalk and there were places that offered airbrushed tattoos. To me, the idea seemed perfect! I could try on different designs, on different parts of my body, in all kinds of colors and do a sort of try-before-you-buy. The very authentic looking airbrushed designs last up to a week. I was so glad I experimented.
One of the first airbrushed tattoos I tried was a blue and green intricate pattern on my lower back. I liked the design, but the colors were not as vibrant as I had hoped they would be, and it had nothing to do with the pigment of the paints. My daughter had gotten a different design painted on her thigh using the same hues, and it just showed up brighter on her skin–more vivid. Why? Because she is fairer than me. It’s just the contrast of the color. If I had walked into a tattoo parlor I would have regretted my initial color selection if I hadn’t learned that I’m better off with black on my back–which I confirmed a few weeks later.
I also had the artist paint a rose design on my right ankle. This was the design I sought after for years, thinking it would look fabulous. Again, I was wrong. The green stem of the rose didn’t show up well, and it didn’t look as good as I thought it would. It was hard enough for me to sport it for a week with a smile. I couldn’t imagine spending the rest of my life that way.
Another advantage to trying temporary tattoos that look realistic is to see how others around you react to it, and you. I got to swim at the beach in the summer while exposing the newly decorated skin. I could definitely notice people’s eyes drifting towards the designs. I didn’t mind it, but if you are deciding about getting a tattoo or two, you might want to consider the additional attention that will be given to the artwork displayed on your very personal canvas.
Even after all of that, I still didn’t take the plunge and get inked. A few factors figure into that. Some family members have requested that I don’t get tattoos. I know, it’s my body; I should do what I want to it. But they fear if I get one or two I will then want more. Sure, some people do get more as time goes on, but I feel if after twenty-something years I’ve never wanted more than two, chances are that’s where my symbolic skin alteration will begin and end.
I’ve researched tattoo places and tracked down the best artists. I’ve weighed hygienic concerns and know exactly where and what I would have emblazoned on my body. I could conceal the skin alterations if I wanted to, or display them until I felt too silly to when I’m old and gray. I’ve heard stories about the pain endured, and am prepared for the scabbing, stinging and redness to follow.
My body is ready but my mind is still on the fence. Maybe I need to be more impulsive and less compulsive about the issues surrounding getting a tattoo and just take the plunge. Or maybe I’ll just continue to fake it, until one day I make it–to the tattoo parlor.
Michael Izzo
9:58 pm on Tuesday, May 22, 2012
Most people my age and older are not fans of tattoos bc of the association with low life types in yesteryear. In modern times, a small lightly colored tattoo is probably ok as long as it is not on your face or neck. Having a tattoo on the face or neck, or heavily tattooed arms is a major factor persons do not get hired for a job. If you feel the need to improve on God's handiwork, place the tattoo where it is not ordinarily visible...but in a place you can easily see it. At the beach, it is amusing to see people with small tattoos on their backs and butts...which THEY cannot see. Tattoos can interfere with certain medical procedures such as MRIs. They also hinder detection of melanomae. Having 64 year old skin, I can tell you that in old age, NO tattoo will be pretty no matter where it is on your body.
Gary
4:09 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012
God's handiwork? That's the mitigating factor is that precludes getting a tattoo or predicates a company's hiring practices? As for your assessment NO tattoo will be pretty, methinks my daughter's initials will always be precious...
Laura Madsen
10:08 pm on Tuesday, May 22, 2012
Michael, interesting - do you know how they interfere with MRIs? I haven't heard o that until now. And I agree, there comes a point in time where even if a tattoo looked cool once upon a time, it's a good thing if it's in a place where you can cover it up. Like you said, I like having the option to cover it up any time you choose, too, for certain photos, for example, or like you mentioned, if it were a factor that created an awkward situation on a job interview.
deshpak
11:29 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
MRI's and metal don't get along well. Some very old tattoo pigments used metal particles. If your tattoo was obtained within the past 20 years you are almost assured that Metal fragments in the pigment will not be an issue. Even if your tattoo is older than 20 years old, that doesn’t mean the ink absolutely contained metal. And even if it did contain metal, that does not mean you absolutely will have a problem with getting an MRI. If you find yourself at this juncture, it will be best for you to inform your doctor of your concerns and let them help you make an informed decision. Remember that there are always alternatives to MRI – people with pacemakers and metal implants (among other things) also have to find other diagnostic methods. Your doctor can help you decide if you might be at risk and, if so, what alternate options are available to you. Personally, the only marks I want on my skin are birthmarks, but that's just me.
Laura Madsen
11:35 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
deshpak, I once read something by another author who stated "Birthmarks are God's tattoos" :) Not exactly related to this blog, but your post made me think of it.
deshpak
5:13 pm on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
"R. Swanson - No, it's not Wisteria Lane. But Patch is supposed to be a news service. Blogs about things like tattoos, which appeal to the lowest common denominator in our society (which is what I meant by "low rent", a point that escaped you), are not news. Take your blogs to a blog site."
I did not realize that this was a News service (looks like a local blog site to me) and furthermore did not realize that entities providing news could not have editorial content and/or topics that did not fit within your standards. I suggest you provide WSJ, New York Times and a host of other news services with this guidance as they are also missing the point and risk being "low rent". I guess you would be an advocate of let's say Xinhua News agency (All the News All then Time - after passing through the party's filter first of course)
Selene
12:20 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Is this the best you can do Patch? Isn't this the same woman who blogged about having a college education and was incapable of balancing her check book? Really? Stop insulting our intelligence and PAY a good writer with some intelligence
Mikey D
6:06 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Thank you, Selene. Those were my thoughts exactly.
R. Swanson
9:56 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Thanks Selene for speaking up - these blogs make Patch a generally "low rent" website, especially when they deal with airbrushing tatoos on your lower back (isn't that called a "tramp stamp" for a reason?) Tatoos are gross and the domain of trashiest elements of our society. I realize people will disagree with this, but frankly I am tired of having to see tatoos everywhere nowadays - it's a form of pollution in my view.
Laura Madsen
10:56 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
You must admit, though, there is a market for temporary, airbrushed, or permanent tattoos, and apparently the demand for them is growing as you have even remarked that they seem to be "everywhere nowadays". I don't agree with everyone's fashion statements or forms of expression either, but as long as there are people who do like tattoos, the industry will thrive because it's making money.
Smoking comes to my mind when you make the remark about pollution. There are health risks associated with smoking and it can pollute the environment of others who choose not to smoke, but ultimately the decision is up to the individual as to whether they choose to partake in the activity or not.
As for blog topics, I'm glad that Patch has such a variety of things to read about. It would be a very boring place if the subjects only revolved around a few areas of interest.
deshpak
11:33 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Wow! Is this Wisteria Lane?? And what exactly is a "high rent" website?
Laura Madsen
11:34 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
deshpak - :)
R. Swanson
12:53 pm on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
No, it's not Wisteria Lane. But Patch is supposed to be a news service. Blogs about things like tattoos, which appeal to the lowest common denominator in our society (which is what I meant by "low rent", a point that escaped you), are not news. Take your blogs to a blog site.
Laura Madsen
1:14 pm on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
R. Swanson, are you saying that all of the successful and professional people who have tattoos are of the "lowest common denominator" in our society then?
Ariana Cohn-Sheehan
2:23 pm on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
R. Swanson, I'm a Patch editor and have three "permanent" tattoos, one of which is quite noticeable on my foot. At one point in my career, I had frequent appointments to interview senators, business people and even a governor and I toyed with whether to cover my foot tattoo or not. For a while, I covered it with a large bandaid, but then one day I stopped, because how could I ask the people I was interviewing to be who they really were if I was not doing the same? In the end, my tattoo had no affect on my interviews or my job and I was never, ever treated as though I was a part of "the domain of the trashiest elements of our society" for having it. I do not think your sentiment on that is shared by the majority of our society to this day. I will agree with you, though, that there is a difference between a few tattoos and a body covered in them, however, the people who get these tattoos have to live with that choice permanently, whether they're proud or regretful.
Laura Madsen
4:54 pm on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Thanks for sharing your experience Ariana. It's refreshing to hear that a personal choice like a tattoo did not affect you professionally or the way that others have treated you. I think the ability to be who you are by publicly displaying a tattoo - which was a decision that you felt was right for you - says a lot about your confidence and pride in your choice to get one.
Although not everyone accepts the choices others make, I think tolerance is important to keep in mind. There are many people that are exceptional on the inside even if you do not like their appearance (for whatever reason) on the outside.
Hepcat
11:38 pm on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
So why did you read it then?
Not that Laura needs anyone to defend her, but after meeting her face to face and having had the pleasure of speaking to her a few times, I can definitely say she has more intelligence than most PAID writers I've ever met or been interviewed by.
Laura Madsen
6:02 am on Thursday, May 24, 2012
Thank you for the kind words, Hepcat.
Gary
4:13 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012
Well played deshpak, kudos.
Moreover, for those of you that have a problem with said dialog go somewhere else. However, I do find this a relevant topic considering I have 2 children both of which are considering tattoos.
Laura Madsen
7:27 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012
Gary, you bring up a very good point. Even if a topic like getting tattoos does not pertain to someone personally, it could still be relevant because someone they know might be going through a decision process about it. Or like you said - we all have the ability to select what we read and how we interact.
My daughter is only in first grade so she's not old enough to make these kinds of choices for herself yet. But as a parent, I do wonder how I will respond and act to the choices she makes when she gets older, and if she will listen, I think about the kinds of advice I will offer. I hope that your children make choices that they are happy with for the long term, and I applaud the fact that you are taking an active interest in decisions that they are trying to make.
Laura Madsen
6:08 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Thank you for reading my blogs Selene. As a writer, that is my goal, to get readers to read, and better yet engage in an intelligent conversation, or at the very least encourage people to think about an issue. By commenting, and reading my blog, you have proven that I have succeeded, regardless of your opinion. So thank you for taking the time to do that.
For the record, both my at-home and in-school eduction have provided me with the knowledge to not only balance my checkbook, but I also have a degree in Accounting from Rutgers University, and can not only take care of my finances in English, but in Japanese, Spanish and French as well. If you'd like to re-read my Essential Subjects blog, you will see that not once did I claim not to be able to be incapable of balancing my check book; but in my experience I have found some young adults have not acquired that skill among others.
You seem to have strong opinions about my writing. If you would like to read more of my articles that perhaps are better suited to your subject preference, you can view them in many publications, which I outline on my own blog website. I select a variety of subjects over the course of time in effort to place pieces out there which everyone may enjoy for whatever their reasons.
Harold Levin
6:56 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Laura, Thanks for sharing this entertaining story! As a recruiter/coach, I somewhat agree with Michael. Very obvious tattoos that are graphic in nature may discourage some hiring managers from extending job offers but certainly not as across the board as in the past. People definitely have freedom of choice on how they wish to appear but might want to keep in mind how others perceive them.
Laura Madsen
7:07 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Thanks, Harold. I think it's good for people to share their own experiences with things like this. Others who have gotten tattoos and told me their stories have affected my decision to hold off on getting one myself. They have explained to me the discomfort and healing associated with the procedure, and some had realized years later they had not made the best choices when they had someone's name tattooed on their skin, for example.
When you have to live with something for the rest of your life, I think choices should be weighed carefully.
Since you have a lot of experience in the recruiting field, why do you think that tattoos are still looked upon by many in negative ways when people are applying for jobs? Do you think that the old "bad boy" stigma still applies in modern times? I would guess that obvious piercings (such as on the face) could be looked upon similarly as well.
Jennifer Durand
7:24 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Laura I also read recently that the ink is a carcinogen. So do your due diligence where that is concerned as well. Great blog my friend!!
Laura Madsen
7:46 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
I Googled something about that last night, Jennifer. http://chemistry.about.com/cs/howthingswork/f/bltattoomri.htm It seems the MRI interference has something to do with the colors and chemistry of some of the inks used. I guess you'd have to ask the artist if the inks used contain iron oxide ahead of time.
Thanks for the support! :)
David Comora
8:32 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Thanks for sharing your story, Laura. Its interesting how people respond to tattoos and piercings. I have asked my children to refrain from getting tattoos until they are 21. But alas, I have not been totally successful on that front. This is obviously a generational thing and I've tried to find the merit in it, rather than dismissing it. I've met tattoo artists who approach the work they do as seriously as any other artist. I know as an employer, faced with 2 equal candidates for a job, I might be less inclined to hire someone who has a tattoo, especially in a job where they candidate might be exposed to clients and prospective clients. At the same time, I had an excellent art director and accidently discovered months into his employment that he had piercings on his chest. I understand that Disney now does hire people with tattoos as long as they can be completely covered while working. As for the world, 50 - 60 years from now, when a horde of saggy tattoo flesh will be populating miami beach and other retirement areas... I'm not concerned, as my generation will no longer be around to witness it.
Laura Madsen
8:41 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Ultimately I say 'to each his own'. I do think, though, that over time there will be more hiring managers that have tattoos and piercings, and that may cause a shift in the opinions to hire people who have made the same choices of self-expression, as you have exemplified by Disney's decision. Thanks for sharing that bit of information. I had no idea!
I do truly believe that the tattoos, piercings, or other forms of fashion or symbolic self-decoration do not correlate to the personality, talent, or intelligence of the individual sporting them. Sure, the first thing we all see is outward appearance, and it's easy to judge, but some of the nicest people I've met have tattoos.
Curt Carnes
8:46 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Horse Feathers! That what I think of Tattoos. Particular in today’s day and age where we have become such an “enlightened” society,that we now demand (at great cost) our environment to be free of all manmade chemicals, then turn around and have Iron oxide, artificial colors, toxic inks, and who knows what injected into our skin in the name of beauty! I say again – HORSE FEATHERS!
Back in the old day’s asbestos was considered a magic material. So magic that most of the movie snow scenes were large amounts of lose asbestos flakes being dropped on the actors, by stage hands. Also, John’s Manville used to send the children of its Christian workers, a Christmas card that when opened popped out asbestos as snow! Know what? We just didn’t know!
As for me? Well I don’t want to end up finding out 20 years from now that tattoo I got, is now the reason I’m deathly sick!
And as for you Laura. You won't eat Pink Slime, but you'll get a tattoo? Think, Laura, think!
Laura Madsen
9:18 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
It makes you think about things, Curt, right? How many things do we ingest, inject, or expose ourselves to where there is a great unknown factor about the long term effects. This is one of the reasons I love blogging and interacting with readers - you learn a lot!
Matthew
3:47 pm on Sunday, June 3, 2012
It is choice not to eat pink slime and it is a choice not to get a tattoo so as a professional that has had his tattoos for 20 years, All I have to say is if you don't like them don't get one.
sammy
9:47 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
laura, i always wanted one. tweety bird holding a heart with my fam's initials - too chicken to deal with the needles
Laura Madsen
10:47 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Ah, fear of needles, I have heard that to be a definite deterrent for some people.
Pete
10:52 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
For what it may be worth, one of the "debunking" TV shows -- maybe "Mythbusters" -- did a piece on tattoo-ink-vs-MRI, not that long ago. Apparently, the iron oxide was what was implicated, so they made up a special "ink" that was mostly iron oxide, tattooed (dead) pig's skin with it, and put it through the MRI. NO EFFECT. No burning, no blistering, no ink leaking back out.
As they say on that show -- "BUSTED".
As to the social aspect, well, I leave that to the individual. I'm in my 60s, grew up when tattoos were strictly for sailors or tough guys, and STILL may decide to get one. Just not on my face, the back of my hand, or anyplace it can't easily be covered with clothing. AND where I can see it.
Laura Madsen
11:02 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
I'll have to try to find that Mythbusters episode, Pete. It never hurts to try to learn more. Thanks for sharing that!
I had commented in response to this blog on my Facebook page that one of the first tattoos I ever remember seeing on someone was as a child. It was of a blue anchor on the upper arm of an elderly gentleman at Clearwater Beach in Florida. At age 4 I was curious and asked him "What's that?" He told me he got the tattoo to remind him of his service in the Navy. :) He wore it as a symbol of remembrance and pride. I think that initial experience has helped me keep an open mind to tattoos.
Curt Carnes
12:19 pm on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
I think the "Mythbusters" is a cool show, however, I’ll take the Mayoclinic over their words when it come to tattoos, or any other medical advice!.
"MRI complications. Rarely, tattoos or permanent makeup might cause swelling or burning in the affected areas during magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) exams. In some cases, tattoo pigments can interfere with the quality of the image — such as when a person who has permanent eyeliner has an MRI of the eye."
PS Doctors, YES Doctors used to recommend smoking as a way to relax, and frankly this entire thread seems like the smoking augments of the sixties! Will we be be seeing commercials 20 years form now with people with peoples whose arms needed cut off saying -- But I just thought the tattoo looked so nice and was so safe!
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/tattoos-and-piercings/MC00020
Harold Levin
10:53 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Laura, I think placement of tattoos and the type has a lot to do with the reaction. I have seen some with curse words or vulgar artwork prominently displayed on arms, legs, neck, etc. More conservative companies tend to steer clear of such displays. it really depends on the employer.
Laura Madsen
11:04 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Wow. It would never occur to me to have something outrageous like that displayed on my body; but I guess what's too much is all relative depending on the person and the circumstances.
S.G.
4:11 pm on Sunday, June 3, 2012
Whenever my husband sees a tattoo he says, "Did they just get up one day and ask themselves 'what can I do today to make myself less employable?'"
Both of us have worked for large corporations and don't know anyone on the upper rungs of the corporate ladder with a visible tattoo.
For the editor with the tattoos: you will never know how anyone who is used to being interviewed and/or is in the public eye feels about your tattoos.
centurion
11:45 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
I've always wanted to get a tat of an eyeball in the middle of my forehead. However, I like having food and shelter more.
Laura Madsen
11:46 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
centurion, I heard the cyclops look isn't in vogue anymore anyway. ;)
centurion
11:46 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
And by the way, if you don't like an article, or it's subject, don't read it. Nobody is forcing you.
Laura Madsen
11:48 am on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
You are logical as always, centurion. Good to see you 'round again.
CJ
6:42 pm on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Hey Laura,
Always enjoy your topics.
Half a life ago, I was with my best friend when he got his tattoo. A little devil on freestyle skis (him to a T) After a ski trip that took us to Colorado and as far west to Squaw Valley, It did not take long before we decided to move to Denver.
One day we met up with my visiting brother and sister in-law in Steamboat Springs. I asked my buddy to show my sister in-law his tattoo. He said "Nope!" I was like " Are you kidding me?, when have you ever needed an excuse to drop your pants for a girl?" He said he would, but only if I got a tattoo. "OK OK I'll get a tattoo, I promise " I said.
Months later, one day when he came home from work, he asked me why I was walking funny. I told him earlier that day I had a tattoo placed on my right hip. He looked at me with disbelief. When I showed him, he was shocked and said that he really was not serious and did not think I would get a tattoo. I told him that I gave my word to him and that it is there only because of our friendship.
What did I get? American Bald Eagles had always been a part of my life for some reason, so that is what I selected.
Whatever you select for a tattoo, it should have a deep personal meaning to you.
Now while my eagle has a personal meaning, It really could have been another design, this tattoo design was not as important as the reason for getting the tattoo. That reason was keeping my word/bond to a friend that meant/means the world to me.
Laura Madsen
7:12 pm on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Variety is the spice of life. Thanks for the kind words, CJ.
Thanks for sharing your story. That's really good advice. It's wonderful when a friendship is as permanent as a tattoo, or even moreso.
Hepcat
11:34 pm on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
I'm really glad you wrote this blog, Laura! I have wanted a tattoo for years, but for one reason or another, have never gotten one. To this day, I toy with the idea of having Marvin the Martian tattooed on my right arm.
I know why I want it there though! It goes back to my baseball playing days. I was a righty, and not a bad player. My right arm was my strong arm, so it always made sense to me. And it just so happens that my Dad taught me everything I knew about the game...and his name happens to be Marvin.
I never got it, because I think he would have killed me and now my wife doesn't want me to. lol
But I didn't know about the airbrush option...so I might try it on for size yet!
Laura Madsen
6:11 am on Thursday, May 24, 2012
The symbolism of your desired tattoo is very touching, Hepcat. Writing this post has allowed me understand people have very strong opinions on this issue! But I've also found out in the process there are and have been many people, like me, who have thought about getting a tattoo, but have never taken the plunge - or who finally did do it at a point in their life when they felt ready.
Those who I have spoken to who waited years to get a special design have all conveyed to me that they have placed a lot of thought into their decision. Some have waited until they were well into their 40's or 50's to do it. Some are still waiting to. I don't think it's really an age thing, and I don't believe it's about getting one because you want to show it off while you're in your youth. And most of the time I don't think it's about making a public statement. I am getting the impression that those who do get tattooed are making a very personal statement that to them, is timeless.
There are some really talented artists now in the field of airbrushing skin art. I know that you can tend to find them at fairs, boardwalks, waterparks, and special events in the tri-state area during the warmer months here because it's just more practical to have it done when you're not wearing layers of clothing when it's cold out.
Sly
3:51 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012
On the topic of employers vs candidates with tattoos, my niece was recently denied an interview because of her tattoos. She has several as well as a nose stud and has always insisted that they will not matter in the REAL world because her peers have them as well. I think it is something for the younger generation to consider mindfully since it is still the PEROGATIVE of an employer to choose not to interview someone based on their ink alone.
Laura Madsen
7:16 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012
Sly, I'm curious - did the prospective employer tell her outright she was denied the interview because of her tattoos?
Matthew
3:52 pm on Sunday, June 3, 2012
I have 15 tattoos and am gainfully employed making great money in a management position, my girlfriend is an ADA and has several tattoos as well. I know employers can make their decisions based on anything where as some employers may frown on tats others might not.
Laura Madsen
4:04 pm on Sunday, June 3, 2012
Very true, Matthew!
Brett Bickley
8:22 am on Friday, May 25, 2012
..... Do you know the difference between people with tattoos and people without tattoos? People with tattoos don't give a damn that you don't.
Larry Huyler
4:56 pm on Sunday, June 3, 2012
It wasn't that long ago that employers frown on hiring men with long hair and beards. When I see young women with tattoos on their neck, back, chest or arms, it makes me wonder what they will tell their grandkids 20-30 years down the line when it's all faded and saggy. I've got scars, not tattoos.